Hello ladies hello!
I am so sorry I have been so MIA for a couple months. School has legit consumed my life lol. Oh grad school! In any case only a couple of updates to report to you since I stopped updating
Mr. Caribbean got back with his ex wife and he's happy with her...aka doesn't need me. and Sunshine is STILL in the picture. He and I met up on Newbury the other day for lunch to celebrate completing my very first semester. Aside from the meal he gave me a large giftcard to starbucks and said merry christmas sweetie xoxo. I'm like dot dot dot....i didn't get you anything. He responds no worries that's for you so you can get a coffee when you're staying up late next semester. Thought that was cute. So aside from him there have been no other guys unfortunately. The reason being? I'm in love. Yea. That. I'm dating the cute boy from class and i've gotten back my inner bargain hunter. I'm on a break from sugar since I don't want to lost this guy. He has been extra amazing to me and after weighing benefits and costs I came to the conclusion that having him in my life is better. However it doesn't mean I don't miss dating or that I don't get a tiny bit envious of all the gifts you ladies are getting. Trust me. I miss it. However for now I'm financially stable and focusing in on school and who knows what could happen. Just the other day some random older men bought me a bunch of drinks just because. I get sugar in the little ways now. If I'm hurt, sick, hungry, or grumpy the cute boy is there for me. So he gives me a different type of sugar I would say.
Classes do not start for another week and a half so I will be following up with you other girls and seeing how you're doing =)
Gotta live through someone right? ;-)
Happy New Year and happy sugar hunting ladies
Kasha
Monday, January 11, 2010
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Wearing yellow gives me good luck!
Ok I am in the library and SUPPOSED to be finishing this paper and submitting it...it was due 15 mintues ago haha. instead i'm blasting ACDC on my itunes in my eye phones and blogging... BUT I HAD to blog about my date while it's fresh ;-)
Went out on a whim with Gadget before I came downtown. We met in Newton and grabbed a little bite to eat and coffee. Now he warned me that he doesnt' dress up for work...but he had baggy jeans and a red sox t on..and a blue flannel zippie...wow casual is right......and i'm not a sox fan either..i'm over that part cuz mass is red sox nation. LOL. Anyways he and I sat down and grabbed something from this cute little shop in the center of town and he told me about his family and was nervous because he kept talking a LOT. h goes omg you are more gorgeous in person wow how did I get this lucky..it made me blush a lot. He is a def nerd and VERY plain and average looking. I'm not much into white guys to be honest. I wish so much that sunshine would be my sugar we have such good chemistry I smile when I think of him and the attraction is so strong. The difficult part about focusing on Gadget was that sunshine was texting me and so it made me compare my feelings for gadget versus my feelings for sunshine. It threw me off and it kinda showed like I wasn't interested towards the end of our little date. Its chilly so we went back to car he's a totally harmless guy I could put my blonde hair in a pony tail and whip some ass if he tried to do anything so I felt safe at least. He was concerned about my safety cuz he knew I am shopping around for a SD. so that was kinda nice of him to be like be careful call me if u ever feel scared blah blah. Anyways we went to his car sat and just chatted and he started touching my neck and feeling my hair. At this point I didn't even know what I wanted with him. If I kiss him I get the utopia vibe...that's what I kept thinking...so I let him kiss me and it turns out blah nothing to write home about at all. he likes forgot how to use his lips..it's like wtf ur pushing against my lips and whispering sweet nothings...and grabbing my hair. next thing you know his phone goes off and it's his WIFE calling. so he said hey do u wanna step out in case your phone goes off...so i'm like whatever I stand outside texting friends for a minute or two then he tells me he's all set and apologized. I was like I'd rather be hanging out with the ugly kid in the cafe right now. This is just bad. Well we kissed a few more times then I said I have to go sand he's like you're so beautiful please I want to see you again. I smile sweetly like I always do and give my line let's def chat it up and figure it out! haha works most of the time. Checked my paypal he hasn't put anymore money in my account yet. He put 50 in before the date then is gonna add either tonight or tomorrow at work for the vibe. We will see. I don't know how I feel about him.
I keep picturing Mr. Caribbean who emails me like I want to take you to the restaraunt you like next to the state house. (Ok it's called No. 9 park) it's this expensive place that I walk past every night after class. I have wanted to go since the first time I saw the place..so romantic and very expensive. Mr. Caribbean was like I know that place it is one of my fav's let's go and get some wine so I can show you how you will be living being my baby. Oh em gee...have I finally found sugar grail?! Stay tuned and I will tell you...once he is over his cold he is going to set up a dinner date. He said first date I simply want to chat and drink enjoy your beautiful company and just a kiss on the cheek. He goes no pressure good things come to patient sugar daddy's. I was like WOW this guy is just saying everything I want to hear. In any case once the date is set and if it's at No. 9 park I will be so excited!!. I told him I want the table nearest to the corner where there are three windows that give you a beautiful view of Boston Commons. He goes not a problem !
Can it be next week yet?!! AHHHH so excited for Mr. Caribbean!!
Went out on a whim with Gadget before I came downtown. We met in Newton and grabbed a little bite to eat and coffee. Now he warned me that he doesnt' dress up for work...but he had baggy jeans and a red sox t on..and a blue flannel zippie...wow casual is right......and i'm not a sox fan either..i'm over that part cuz mass is red sox nation. LOL. Anyways he and I sat down and grabbed something from this cute little shop in the center of town and he told me about his family and was nervous because he kept talking a LOT. h goes omg you are more gorgeous in person wow how did I get this lucky..it made me blush a lot. He is a def nerd and VERY plain and average looking. I'm not much into white guys to be honest. I wish so much that sunshine would be my sugar we have such good chemistry I smile when I think of him and the attraction is so strong. The difficult part about focusing on Gadget was that sunshine was texting me and so it made me compare my feelings for gadget versus my feelings for sunshine. It threw me off and it kinda showed like I wasn't interested towards the end of our little date. Its chilly so we went back to car he's a totally harmless guy I could put my blonde hair in a pony tail and whip some ass if he tried to do anything so I felt safe at least. He was concerned about my safety cuz he knew I am shopping around for a SD. so that was kinda nice of him to be like be careful call me if u ever feel scared blah blah. Anyways we went to his car sat and just chatted and he started touching my neck and feeling my hair. At this point I didn't even know what I wanted with him. If I kiss him I get the utopia vibe...that's what I kept thinking...so I let him kiss me and it turns out blah nothing to write home about at all. he likes forgot how to use his lips..it's like wtf ur pushing against my lips and whispering sweet nothings...and grabbing my hair. next thing you know his phone goes off and it's his WIFE calling. so he said hey do u wanna step out in case your phone goes off...so i'm like whatever I stand outside texting friends for a minute or two then he tells me he's all set and apologized. I was like I'd rather be hanging out with the ugly kid in the cafe right now. This is just bad. Well we kissed a few more times then I said I have to go sand he's like you're so beautiful please I want to see you again. I smile sweetly like I always do and give my line let's def chat it up and figure it out! haha works most of the time. Checked my paypal he hasn't put anymore money in my account yet. He put 50 in before the date then is gonna add either tonight or tomorrow at work for the vibe. We will see. I don't know how I feel about him.
I keep picturing Mr. Caribbean who emails me like I want to take you to the restaraunt you like next to the state house. (Ok it's called No. 9 park) it's this expensive place that I walk past every night after class. I have wanted to go since the first time I saw the place..so romantic and very expensive. Mr. Caribbean was like I know that place it is one of my fav's let's go and get some wine so I can show you how you will be living being my baby. Oh em gee...have I finally found sugar grail?! Stay tuned and I will tell you...once he is over his cold he is going to set up a dinner date. He said first date I simply want to chat and drink enjoy your beautiful company and just a kiss on the cheek. He goes no pressure good things come to patient sugar daddy's. I was like WOW this guy is just saying everything I want to hear. In any case once the date is set and if it's at No. 9 park I will be so excited!!. I told him I want the table nearest to the corner where there are three windows that give you a beautiful view of Boston Commons. He goes not a problem !
Can it be next week yet?!! AHHHH so excited for Mr. Caribbean!!
Monday, October 12, 2009
Ahoy Sailor ;-)
Well it looks like in the blink of an eye I have two brand new pot sd's. It's interesting because they both bring something different to the table- and they are both inexperienced with this sort of thing and are excited to talk to me whether it's email or for me to call one of them at work. I did not meet either of them on SA...and I am actually to just cancel that account..besides Sunshine nothing good has come from that. The Boston crowd of men seem to be less wealthy than the rest of the other gentlemen i've been reading and seeing. However the nice thing is that throughout my dates with pot sd's they have been gracious to buy a great dinner and hand me cash even if I am not feeling it. So I guess there's a mix of gentlemen out there. There are a lot of Irish and Italian sd's here and they all seem to still have some charm left in 'em.
Mr Caribbean- he is quite enthusiastic and thrilled that I am a sane girl who has a lot of the same interests as him. He really wants a travel companion to the Caribbean in the Winter (which I adore) and is big on having a good time and smiling a lot. He sent me photos of the villa he rents in the winter and his own photos of him hanging out there. So I know he legit has been there LOL. He is in real estate and as a hobby and old job he sells wine to restaurants. He likes that I love to smile and says he wants to always see me happy (aka and I quote "I want to take care of you!") =) He is more than happy to buy me my halloween costume...plus anything else I want LOL. The website sells all sorts of lingerie, costumes, stockings, undies, and stockings =) He is looking to buy all this by next week =)
As for the costume...the model here is the plus size model but I can't wear that size..the weird thing about me is that I have a small waist but a large bum so I have to get a size L..maybe XL oddly enough. I tried on a bunch of costumes at this place in Boston called Garment District and I tried the usual story book characters. The size XL was too loose in the waist for me and barely covers my butt. Granted that doesn't matter I'm going to wear nude undies and nude stockings. I have to be decently classy my sister is coming to visit hopefully! But that Thursday or Friday night Sunshine wants to go out with me...I tried convincing him to be lenny kravitz again cuz he can pull it off. So hot. I love lenny. <33
Gadget- he is a different character wants to first off purchase this for me ASAP..
Lol of all people I have not owned anything this hightech..never mind a toy that expensive..sunshine wanted to buy me a hitachi wand...but that thing looks like a floor buffer...at least Gadget has some good taste..this baby will run him about 109 bucks...all in the name of sexual pleasure. Loves it.
Otherwise he is a little less about an allowance but all about shopping for clothing and other fun things. He love boots and told me he wants to go shopping specifically for cute boots that I can wear for any sort of occasion (Boston is FULL of scene girls who can't match as a side note it drives me crazy). He wants some high heeled boots and some cute colored flat ones. I told him that I need a couple new dressed for an upcoming photo shoot and he said we will go and look and he wants to get me something for that =)
He and I are meeting for lunch and coffee (since we are both addicted) a few stops away from my place on thursday before my class (thank god I dont have any homework due for that class that day) so I can skip out on the library and meet up with him then hike it back over to finish this paper due friday. ugh.
Actually speaking of school I need to finish this internship for the U.S. Department of State it's due wicked soon (nov 1) for summer internships. That and this cute boy in both of my international relations classes has been texting me all evening LOL. I caught him with a classmate earlier and I had to run off to class but he texted me and was like oh thanks for sticking around to talk with me lol I had that coffee that I owed you from the other night in my pocked lol lol. I responded of so if you brought the coffee then you were hoping to see me at the library today huh ;-) he wrote something in spanish and I went to translator.com (i'm nifty) and he wrote that I was very clever and possibly right that he was hoping to see me. then he wrote btw you looked adorable in your pink jacket...after that it's all flirty things back and forth..but yea..OH BOY! Here is goes! a boy my AGE! I almost forgot how to talk to them..hahaha
OH so I want to let you all know I have that photo shoot this weekend it's either going to be at boston commons (which would be VERY VERY COLD) so the photographer told me to bring a jacket for in between shoots...that's her number one choice spot since new england has pretty folliage now..but otherwise she has an indoor location that will work but I wouldn't wear such bright colors more solid black or something angelic she imagines. I'm excited she seems to have the same game plan that I do. I just need to figure out hair and such and I will be good to go!
I am still waiting to hear from that clothing company..they sent me an email that they have interviews this month AND a shoot at the end of the month.....I'm like how am I going to fit all of this in my schedule?! My check from the school comes back this friday so i'm set for rent and such from here on out so I dont have to worry as much! But I am still very focused on school and getting this modeling thing set up with this company so I can rake in some extra money.
In any case babies have a great week and I'll keep you all posted on the dates!
Mr Caribbean- he is quite enthusiastic and thrilled that I am a sane girl who has a lot of the same interests as him. He really wants a travel companion to the Caribbean in the Winter (which I adore) and is big on having a good time and smiling a lot. He sent me photos of the villa he rents in the winter and his own photos of him hanging out there. So I know he legit has been there LOL. He is in real estate and as a hobby and old job he sells wine to restaurants. He likes that I love to smile and says he wants to always see me happy (aka and I quote "I want to take care of you!") =) He is more than happy to buy me my halloween costume...plus anything else I want LOL. The website sells all sorts of lingerie, costumes, stockings, undies, and stockings =) He is looking to buy all this by next week =)
As for the costume...the model here is the plus size model but I can't wear that size..the weird thing about me is that I have a small waist but a large bum so I have to get a size L..maybe XL oddly enough. I tried on a bunch of costumes at this place in Boston called Garment District and I tried the usual story book characters. The size XL was too loose in the waist for me and barely covers my butt. Granted that doesn't matter I'm going to wear nude undies and nude stockings. I have to be decently classy my sister is coming to visit hopefully! But that Thursday or Friday night Sunshine wants to go out with me...I tried convincing him to be lenny kravitz again cuz he can pull it off. So hot. I love lenny. <33
Gadget- he is a different character wants to first off purchase this for me ASAP..
Lol of all people I have not owned anything this hightech..never mind a toy that expensive..sunshine wanted to buy me a hitachi wand...but that thing looks like a floor buffer...at least Gadget has some good taste..this baby will run him about 109 bucks...all in the name of sexual pleasure. Loves it.
Otherwise he is a little less about an allowance but all about shopping for clothing and other fun things. He love boots and told me he wants to go shopping specifically for cute boots that I can wear for any sort of occasion (Boston is FULL of scene girls who can't match as a side note it drives me crazy). He wants some high heeled boots and some cute colored flat ones. I told him that I need a couple new dressed for an upcoming photo shoot and he said we will go and look and he wants to get me something for that =)
He and I are meeting for lunch and coffee (since we are both addicted) a few stops away from my place on thursday before my class (thank god I dont have any homework due for that class that day) so I can skip out on the library and meet up with him then hike it back over to finish this paper due friday. ugh.
Actually speaking of school I need to finish this internship for the U.S. Department of State it's due wicked soon (nov 1) for summer internships. That and this cute boy in both of my international relations classes has been texting me all evening LOL. I caught him with a classmate earlier and I had to run off to class but he texted me and was like oh thanks for sticking around to talk with me lol I had that coffee that I owed you from the other night in my pocked lol lol. I responded of so if you brought the coffee then you were hoping to see me at the library today huh ;-) he wrote something in spanish and I went to translator.com (i'm nifty) and he wrote that I was very clever and possibly right that he was hoping to see me. then he wrote btw you looked adorable in your pink jacket...after that it's all flirty things back and forth..but yea..OH BOY! Here is goes! a boy my AGE! I almost forgot how to talk to them..hahaha
OH so I want to let you all know I have that photo shoot this weekend it's either going to be at boston commons (which would be VERY VERY COLD) so the photographer told me to bring a jacket for in between shoots...that's her number one choice spot since new england has pretty folliage now..but otherwise she has an indoor location that will work but I wouldn't wear such bright colors more solid black or something angelic she imagines. I'm excited she seems to have the same game plan that I do. I just need to figure out hair and such and I will be good to go!
I am still waiting to hear from that clothing company..they sent me an email that they have interviews this month AND a shoot at the end of the month.....I'm like how am I going to fit all of this in my schedule?! My check from the school comes back this friday so i'm set for rent and such from here on out so I dont have to worry as much! But I am still very focused on school and getting this modeling thing set up with this company so I can rake in some extra money.
In any case babies have a great week and I'll keep you all posted on the dates!
Saturday, October 10, 2009
It's raining...but not with sugar...
Finally! A moment to update!
I have been so busy with these papers that I have not had the energy to write. However now that my Saturday night is quiet I will take the time to tell you what's been up..
Well since the last time I updated I went out on a date with the Professor. He and i met at an adorable Italian Restaurant in Brookline. I was all dazzled up with a new black dress and my hair done up with curls. The dress was a TAD short so I wore black tights with it....I'm all about making a good first impression and I'm already tall..so adding a black dress that is made to be knee length on a girl 5'5 doesn't look innocent on a girl 5'10 LOL. Anyways I was treated to my very first bottle of 80 dollar wine- which he picked out no help from me haha. He was a tad shorter than I predicted but at the same time 1) Thank god I wore flats 2) he's good looking so w.e.
We had a few courses of dinner and throughout the dinner we chatted about innocent topics pertaining to each other and what makes us tick. He is very insightful and very well rounded surprisingly. Since our first meeting was surrounded by other people the conversation was very pg and he told me more about how he likes to travel to NYC and Vegas for conferences but doesn't want to go alone....and would prefer to have someone with him and he winked at me. So I'm glad I caught that because that is something I am DEF looking for. Yes thank you previous potentials for throwing out there hey yeah I have money want it come to my hotel..it's like NO buddy I'm not a pay as you type of girl. Show me something besides your lame bedroom tactics LOL. Impress me with your mind bring me somewhere I've never been to. As Joan and I were talking about earlier we have updated tastes..it's not that I'm asking for a lot either. Use what you have and let's have fun...open my eyes to something more...that's why I like this so much and meeting a man who wants to actually bring a girl with him and show her new things is exactly why I am patient with him. He is busy as all hell right now- he emailed me that since we met up he has been at work very single day. He asked me to suggest a gift and I threw out the idea of a massage/facial at a spa on Newbury Street. He said sounds good as soon as I can see you I will let you know my schedule is a little hectic- tell me what's good for you and after the weekend we will figure something out! I like that he has boundaries and know how to take things step by step. It isn't a rush to the finish line he's experienced and looking for more than just a body.
So all in all- I think it went well and I hope I get to see him again. Otherwise from him I have been seeing Sunshine a lot. He isn't my sugar anymore but he gave me some money the other day "as a friend" lol. ok well thank you sweetie for lunch and bringing me out and buying me a dress, and drinks...but you still aren't my sugar huh? I guess he wants just a friendship with no pressure and we got into a fight about something the other day and he fully apologized the day after and said he was in the wrong for what happened. He kinda screwed up our friday night dinner plans but hey I went out with another friend anyways- I wasn't going to let any man ruin a free night for this student ;-) But otherwise he told me that he really cares for me and it seems like he is starting to take me more seriously and can trust me. I like that it is just a friendship however because I want to be able to meet other people and plus he encouraged me to find a real sugar daddy (I will never understand him LOL).
But otherwise from the men I haven't seen much sugar lately...I think I'm going through a dry spell...I tried another guy got his photo and he was U-G-L-Y. I immediately deleted any trace of him and never responded. Yes he was that ugly. Tattoos everywhere greasy hair terrible teeth and face...did not look like the time of man I can sit at a restaurant and enjoy wine with. I'm not that picky dont get me wrong...but he is just meant for another girl...not me LOL.
I am glad to be reading that a lot of you ladies have been finding sugar lately- I am vicariously living through you all!! haha so keep updating!!!
Okay well I'm off to finish watching a little more t.v. then early bed..last night wasn't a good sleeping night for me- a guy from I went to Europe with came out to go to the bars and we mixed wine beer and vodka. We both woke up like WOW. Fail. haha but it was fun I realized how much I miss conversation with random people. And that school has consumed my life. But it's ok I will get by and maybe the roles will reverse one day and I will be the sugar momma. I keep telling myself that and it makes me giggle.
Have a great weekend lovies and if I hear from professor and ACTUALLY get that gift you will hear about it! I'm not going this long without updating again! LOL
Kisses
Kasha
I have been so busy with these papers that I have not had the energy to write. However now that my Saturday night is quiet I will take the time to tell you what's been up..
Well since the last time I updated I went out on a date with the Professor. He and i met at an adorable Italian Restaurant in Brookline. I was all dazzled up with a new black dress and my hair done up with curls. The dress was a TAD short so I wore black tights with it....I'm all about making a good first impression and I'm already tall..so adding a black dress that is made to be knee length on a girl 5'5 doesn't look innocent on a girl 5'10 LOL. Anyways I was treated to my very first bottle of 80 dollar wine- which he picked out no help from me haha. He was a tad shorter than I predicted but at the same time 1) Thank god I wore flats 2) he's good looking so w.e.
We had a few courses of dinner and throughout the dinner we chatted about innocent topics pertaining to each other and what makes us tick. He is very insightful and very well rounded surprisingly. Since our first meeting was surrounded by other people the conversation was very pg and he told me more about how he likes to travel to NYC and Vegas for conferences but doesn't want to go alone....and would prefer to have someone with him and he winked at me. So I'm glad I caught that because that is something I am DEF looking for. Yes thank you previous potentials for throwing out there hey yeah I have money want it come to my hotel..it's like NO buddy I'm not a pay as you type of girl. Show me something besides your lame bedroom tactics LOL. Impress me with your mind bring me somewhere I've never been to. As Joan and I were talking about earlier we have updated tastes..it's not that I'm asking for a lot either. Use what you have and let's have fun...open my eyes to something more...that's why I like this so much and meeting a man who wants to actually bring a girl with him and show her new things is exactly why I am patient with him. He is busy as all hell right now- he emailed me that since we met up he has been at work very single day. He asked me to suggest a gift and I threw out the idea of a massage/facial at a spa on Newbury Street. He said sounds good as soon as I can see you I will let you know my schedule is a little hectic- tell me what's good for you and after the weekend we will figure something out! I like that he has boundaries and know how to take things step by step. It isn't a rush to the finish line he's experienced and looking for more than just a body.
So all in all- I think it went well and I hope I get to see him again. Otherwise from him I have been seeing Sunshine a lot. He isn't my sugar anymore but he gave me some money the other day "as a friend" lol. ok well thank you sweetie for lunch and bringing me out and buying me a dress, and drinks...but you still aren't my sugar huh? I guess he wants just a friendship with no pressure and we got into a fight about something the other day and he fully apologized the day after and said he was in the wrong for what happened. He kinda screwed up our friday night dinner plans but hey I went out with another friend anyways- I wasn't going to let any man ruin a free night for this student ;-) But otherwise he told me that he really cares for me and it seems like he is starting to take me more seriously and can trust me. I like that it is just a friendship however because I want to be able to meet other people and plus he encouraged me to find a real sugar daddy (I will never understand him LOL).
But otherwise from the men I haven't seen much sugar lately...I think I'm going through a dry spell...I tried another guy got his photo and he was U-G-L-Y. I immediately deleted any trace of him and never responded. Yes he was that ugly. Tattoos everywhere greasy hair terrible teeth and face...did not look like the time of man I can sit at a restaurant and enjoy wine with. I'm not that picky dont get me wrong...but he is just meant for another girl...not me LOL.
I am glad to be reading that a lot of you ladies have been finding sugar lately- I am vicariously living through you all!! haha so keep updating!!!
Okay well I'm off to finish watching a little more t.v. then early bed..last night wasn't a good sleeping night for me- a guy from I went to Europe with came out to go to the bars and we mixed wine beer and vodka. We both woke up like WOW. Fail. haha but it was fun I realized how much I miss conversation with random people. And that school has consumed my life. But it's ok I will get by and maybe the roles will reverse one day and I will be the sugar momma. I keep telling myself that and it makes me giggle.
Have a great weekend lovies and if I hear from professor and ACTUALLY get that gift you will hear about it! I'm not going this long without updating again! LOL
Kisses
Kasha
Monday, September 28, 2009
Manic Monday made promising
Good evening darlings-
So I got a lovely surprise from Sunshine. I told him how my little beta fish died friday night when we went on our cray out of this world date (one of these days I NEED to explain it all). Aside from the date he said I looked sad and felt bad- I've had this fishy for three years and I am a little lonely without a little buddy floating around in my room to talk to like it's my baby. Yes I'm a little funny like that. Anyways I emailed him this adorably face shot of me today with these cute shirley temple curls. He responded like that is such a lovely photo of you. so cute! xoxo "sunshine". well then he responded again to me and said "hey I will pick up a new fishy for you and deliver it to you. Though I have a feeling you want to pick him out yourself." Well I responded saying yes I want to pick him out with you! Well his response to that was "I will have to make some time for that but np LOL". I had a huge smile across my face that something so silly and simple like a fish would actually get him to figure out his schedule to pick me up and take me to a decent pet shop in the area. I have this adorable HUGE martini glass that I used for my old beta Coral. When I get the new one I will post a photo of him/her. I prefer a male fishy cuz lord knows I love surrounding myself with men at every bend and turn!
I have a date with Professor on friday night at the same italian restaurant. It's attempt number 3! He gave me the low down of his previous dates and what the girls were like. Apparently one girl asked him for 20,000 and 1,000 up front right at dinner! Now sugars...I know we are all in this together..but this is the exact reason why men have difficulty trusting women and finding the right sugar. You can only ask for so much...I know exactly what I need- and the little extra...ok so maybe being spoiled with a Tiffany box and shopping sprees is what I want...but I dont plan on getting a 20,000 cash allowance! Another girl he told me was pretty much a straight up hooker and that he is not looking for just sex- he said listen sweet blondie I am looking for a sincere connection I want to help it makes the whole arrangement more fulfilling. I don't want to feel hollow giving a random girl money.
Pretty well spoken I'd say!
I will keep you all posted on professor!
So I got a lovely surprise from Sunshine. I told him how my little beta fish died friday night when we went on our cray out of this world date (one of these days I NEED to explain it all). Aside from the date he said I looked sad and felt bad- I've had this fishy for three years and I am a little lonely without a little buddy floating around in my room to talk to like it's my baby. Yes I'm a little funny like that. Anyways I emailed him this adorably face shot of me today with these cute shirley temple curls. He responded like that is such a lovely photo of you. so cute! xoxo "sunshine". well then he responded again to me and said "hey I will pick up a new fishy for you and deliver it to you. Though I have a feeling you want to pick him out yourself." Well I responded saying yes I want to pick him out with you! Well his response to that was "I will have to make some time for that but np LOL". I had a huge smile across my face that something so silly and simple like a fish would actually get him to figure out his schedule to pick me up and take me to a decent pet shop in the area. I have this adorable HUGE martini glass that I used for my old beta Coral. When I get the new one I will post a photo of him/her. I prefer a male fishy cuz lord knows I love surrounding myself with men at every bend and turn!
I have a date with Professor on friday night at the same italian restaurant. It's attempt number 3! He gave me the low down of his previous dates and what the girls were like. Apparently one girl asked him for 20,000 and 1,000 up front right at dinner! Now sugars...I know we are all in this together..but this is the exact reason why men have difficulty trusting women and finding the right sugar. You can only ask for so much...I know exactly what I need- and the little extra...ok so maybe being spoiled with a Tiffany box and shopping sprees is what I want...but I dont plan on getting a 20,000 cash allowance! Another girl he told me was pretty much a straight up hooker and that he is not looking for just sex- he said listen sweet blondie I am looking for a sincere connection I want to help it makes the whole arrangement more fulfilling. I don't want to feel hollow giving a random girl money.
Pretty well spoken I'd say!
I will keep you all posted on professor!
Sunday, September 27, 2009
New sweet start
To first begin-
I am not brand new to the world of searching for a sugar daddy LOL It has just taken me a little time to discover the world of blogging about my secret other life. During the day I am a full fledged grad student pursuing my dreams..day to day..homework everyday... pretty mundane. By night I am a sugar baby. Plain and simple. It's been around two years since I first discovered the life style and it has been very rocky. First beginning with the countless emails, phone calls and TEXTING. GOD why do all of these sugars daddies have to text instead of call?! I'm grateful one of my newer daddies believes in only a little bit of texting but he enjoys hearing my voice on the phone as well. Ok back on track- the countless boring dates getting a little cash here and there. Hearing the magic words on the dates like oh you are more beautiful than even in your pictures. "Thank you" (my mind races to avoid saying and you are a lot older and uglier than your pictures LOL) Aside from the past it's time to move forward!
Here I am it is 2009 I just moved to Boston with hopes of avoiding going back home at any cost. I have had two sugar dates in the past few weeks. I know everyone here loves little pet names...I shall call the main one Sunshine. Reason being he and I dated as SB/SD and then he told me that he didn't think he was Daddy material for me. After all the talking and dating I was slightly hurt since rent was due...but he made up for it by telling me he didn't want to lose me and that we had great chemistry. Any girl reading this would think ok he's full of shit- however I had to agree with him on it- we get along VERY well. His last sugar was nutso and jealous of him all the time and they became pretty much bf gf since she fell for him after 6 months or something and would stop taking his money. I know I am pretty much what he is looking for- tall and blonde. Sunshine keeps dropping hints that I am his girlfriend. Which is fine by me to be honest I dont have to be exclusive and neither does he. He surprised me the other day by saying he wanted to get coffee before my class at 530. My classes are all downtown so we decided to grab a little bite to eat and a drink at a lounge within eye shot of my classroom. Gosh I love boston. He kisses me goodbye and doesn't care who sees him. The feeling of attraction is definitely mutual. I like spending time with him and anytime we go out I don't spend a dime. It's more like having a daddy but without the title and allowance. Which is wonderful emotionally..but I wouldn't be blogging about an adventure if it just ended there now would I? ;-)
I went on one more date with a WAYYY older gentleman. He looked quite young in his photos however when you meet in person....that's when reality hits..he looked old enough to be my grandfather and aside from that he was quite a sweet man. We went to grab coffee I met him around the corner fmor my apartment at a starbucks. I brought a book with me and waited and watched as he got out of his brand new lexus out in front...I will give it to him he is quite active for his age however his wit and charm were not enough for me. I knew the second I saw him he could only be a companion. We had a nice date I used my open mind and world traveling experiences to my advantage. Men seem to adore a well rounded woman who isn't looking for more than hey rent and some shopping. He offered to take me to dinner that nigth and after very careful consideration and checking in with my very best gay friend. He pushed me to say yes and I did. I've never been to Legal Seafood so I gave it a go. The food was wonderful! I tried two different kinds of wine and the conversation was flawless. He was very interesting and looking back I'm glad I gave him a little more time. I'm glad I made the decision to end it there but I did get a nice monetary compensation for my time.
Meet Professor- teaches a master class in something who knows where in Boston. A craigslist phenomenon. Sometimes that website scares me and other times I am pleasantly surprised- you can search for a side table or a SD. Go figure. Anyways he and I have been emailing a lot and not really speaking on the phone (just found out that he's married..not a fan but he is genuinely sweet and I think very new to this whole thing). We have tried to have dinner twice and both a failure. First time I didn't have his number only work number and waited around the restaurant and walked inside and couldn't find him. Turns out he was at the bar the entire time and some ladies were chit chatting with him.......why would I walk up to the bar with a man with other women and expect it to be a potential sugar? ...anyways he emailed me about an hour later after I got fed up since I thought he blew me off and told me he was there and was sad it didn't work out. We exchanged cell numbers and attempted a second date at this adorable restaurant in Brookline. Well two hours before the date (I was in class all the way downtown) he calls and leaves a message that he had a class to teach last minute and wouldn't be able to go- he kept apologizing and reassuring m he is def interested in meeting and that he will make it up. I understand where he is coming from something happened- but in sugar land my mentality is slightly pessimistic. If you expect nothing from the man he can always surprise you. He told me his entire schedule for the next two weeks and that I shouldn't be worried in meeting up. Fine whatever just prove me wrong that you're not going to flake out!
In general it seems as thought Sugar daddies are looking for a beautiful woman who has a very slender figure. Although several websites try and insist that sugar daddy dating is for anyone- is it really? This question raises several points- first I would suppose that this type of dating is for anyone because more and more les wealthy men are getting in on the action. There are only so many drop dead gorgeous women out there. Second of all the taste of men have changed. I have had countless dates with men and I will be the first to tell you that I am not slender. I am a curvy woman ideal for a man who enjoys a round bottom. I believe what I want to conclude here is that the sugar daddy dating world is changing- men have all sorts of different tastes in women- and it is the older men who seems to appreciate my shape more than the younger men. There of course have been rejections because I am not a small size- but I do not take it to heart. Preference is preference. My only argument to these rich men is choose wisely how you invest your money. Food for thought! Alright it is a lazy sunday afternoon and I need to get homework done so I don't drown by the time next weekend rolls around---apparently when the professor and I have our legit date hopefully..
All the best sugars ;-)
I am not brand new to the world of searching for a sugar daddy LOL It has just taken me a little time to discover the world of blogging about my secret other life. During the day I am a full fledged grad student pursuing my dreams..day to day..homework everyday... pretty mundane. By night I am a sugar baby. Plain and simple. It's been around two years since I first discovered the life style and it has been very rocky. First beginning with the countless emails, phone calls and TEXTING. GOD why do all of these sugars daddies have to text instead of call?! I'm grateful one of my newer daddies believes in only a little bit of texting but he enjoys hearing my voice on the phone as well. Ok back on track- the countless boring dates getting a little cash here and there. Hearing the magic words on the dates like oh you are more beautiful than even in your pictures. "Thank you" (my mind races to avoid saying and you are a lot older and uglier than your pictures LOL) Aside from the past it's time to move forward!
Here I am it is 2009 I just moved to Boston with hopes of avoiding going back home at any cost. I have had two sugar dates in the past few weeks. I know everyone here loves little pet names...I shall call the main one Sunshine. Reason being he and I dated as SB/SD and then he told me that he didn't think he was Daddy material for me. After all the talking and dating I was slightly hurt since rent was due...but he made up for it by telling me he didn't want to lose me and that we had great chemistry. Any girl reading this would think ok he's full of shit- however I had to agree with him on it- we get along VERY well. His last sugar was nutso and jealous of him all the time and they became pretty much bf gf since she fell for him after 6 months or something and would stop taking his money. I know I am pretty much what he is looking for- tall and blonde. Sunshine keeps dropping hints that I am his girlfriend. Which is fine by me to be honest I dont have to be exclusive and neither does he. He surprised me the other day by saying he wanted to get coffee before my class at 530. My classes are all downtown so we decided to grab a little bite to eat and a drink at a lounge within eye shot of my classroom. Gosh I love boston. He kisses me goodbye and doesn't care who sees him. The feeling of attraction is definitely mutual. I like spending time with him and anytime we go out I don't spend a dime. It's more like having a daddy but without the title and allowance. Which is wonderful emotionally..but I wouldn't be blogging about an adventure if it just ended there now would I? ;-)
I went on one more date with a WAYYY older gentleman. He looked quite young in his photos however when you meet in person....that's when reality hits..he looked old enough to be my grandfather and aside from that he was quite a sweet man. We went to grab coffee I met him around the corner fmor my apartment at a starbucks. I brought a book with me and waited and watched as he got out of his brand new lexus out in front...I will give it to him he is quite active for his age however his wit and charm were not enough for me. I knew the second I saw him he could only be a companion. We had a nice date I used my open mind and world traveling experiences to my advantage. Men seem to adore a well rounded woman who isn't looking for more than hey rent and some shopping. He offered to take me to dinner that nigth and after very careful consideration and checking in with my very best gay friend. He pushed me to say yes and I did. I've never been to Legal Seafood so I gave it a go. The food was wonderful! I tried two different kinds of wine and the conversation was flawless. He was very interesting and looking back I'm glad I gave him a little more time. I'm glad I made the decision to end it there but I did get a nice monetary compensation for my time.
Meet Professor- teaches a master class in something who knows where in Boston. A craigslist phenomenon. Sometimes that website scares me and other times I am pleasantly surprised- you can search for a side table or a SD. Go figure. Anyways he and I have been emailing a lot and not really speaking on the phone (just found out that he's married..not a fan but he is genuinely sweet and I think very new to this whole thing). We have tried to have dinner twice and both a failure. First time I didn't have his number only work number and waited around the restaurant and walked inside and couldn't find him. Turns out he was at the bar the entire time and some ladies were chit chatting with him.......why would I walk up to the bar with a man with other women and expect it to be a potential sugar? ...anyways he emailed me about an hour later after I got fed up since I thought he blew me off and told me he was there and was sad it didn't work out. We exchanged cell numbers and attempted a second date at this adorable restaurant in Brookline. Well two hours before the date (I was in class all the way downtown) he calls and leaves a message that he had a class to teach last minute and wouldn't be able to go- he kept apologizing and reassuring m he is def interested in meeting and that he will make it up. I understand where he is coming from something happened- but in sugar land my mentality is slightly pessimistic. If you expect nothing from the man he can always surprise you. He told me his entire schedule for the next two weeks and that I shouldn't be worried in meeting up. Fine whatever just prove me wrong that you're not going to flake out!
In general it seems as thought Sugar daddies are looking for a beautiful woman who has a very slender figure. Although several websites try and insist that sugar daddy dating is for anyone- is it really? This question raises several points- first I would suppose that this type of dating is for anyone because more and more les wealthy men are getting in on the action. There are only so many drop dead gorgeous women out there. Second of all the taste of men have changed. I have had countless dates with men and I will be the first to tell you that I am not slender. I am a curvy woman ideal for a man who enjoys a round bottom. I believe what I want to conclude here is that the sugar daddy dating world is changing- men have all sorts of different tastes in women- and it is the older men who seems to appreciate my shape more than the younger men. There of course have been rejections because I am not a small size- but I do not take it to heart. Preference is preference. My only argument to these rich men is choose wisely how you invest your money. Food for thought! Alright it is a lazy sunday afternoon and I need to get homework done so I don't drown by the time next weekend rolls around---apparently when the professor and I have our legit date hopefully..
All the best sugars ;-)
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